Second Act Readiness Checklist Dexter Montgomery | The 90-Day Protocol Can I describe the life I want beyond simply finding a new partner? Do I have routines and friendships that support me? Have I made a realistic plan for my responsibilities and commitments? If I have children, am I building predictable time and a welcoming home for them? Can I talk about the past without making a new person responsible for repairing it? Do I know which patterns I want to change in my next relationship? Choose one area to work on this week. This is a reflection tool, not a diagnostic test. Companion to The Second Act. Educational guidance, not individualized professional advice.